Im a f.a.t. (faboulous and thick) black woman from mpls, where do I find a good man race does'nt matter?

Im looking for someone who is nice and wants a relationship, no games. I have tried everything and it is just hard. I just want to be able to meet someone and talk and have a good relationship with.. Race does not matter, I am a good woman and just wondering where do you go and find and look. I work in downtown minneapolis and you see so many men but dont know if they are looking or what? Can anybody give advice?