I need advice from someone spiritual or who is wiccan. Someone help?

So i know this is totally random n you'll think im crazy,but....Well,here's the thing. I'm a gay male,17,my friend is a straight female,17,and we were friends but never really close. The other night she was having anxiety issues so i went over at like,3 in the morning to help her out with them. When i went over there,this random cat appeared from nowhere and stayed by my car with us (where we talked) until i went home at like,3 in the morning. Last night,we were talking about like,beliefs with spirits and things and the same exact cat appeared out of nowheere and stayed with us. Then a bunch of odd things happened. A-She was smoking on a cigarette and i know this is going to sound crazy,really,but it went out. And then in the side burned this thing that looked like an eye with a face inside of it. B-As we talked on we realized we have had like,not just similarites but the exact same experiences. I had once heard like,a tapping sound from inside the wall in my room at one point,and if i told anyone about it they'd think i was crazy,but the thing is,she's had the EXACT same thing happen to her. Then i once had a dream about this little red devil,and she dreamed the EXACT same dream,i mean,like,right down to a pinpoint exact same. Then,we had made a fire that night,and it had gotten down to embers,like,really dull dull dulllll embers on a humid night,and as we start talking and getting deeper into our thoughts and beliefs on things,and talk about spirits and stuff,the fire just comes right back and it stays lit until we finished talking,like,we stayed up all night and we ended up having to put it out with water because it wouldn't go out on its own. Then her aunt and her mom had immediately loved me the moment they saw me,like,with her aunt i guess it's hard for her aunt to trust people but she trusted me right when she saw me,same with her mom (maybe it's just nothing to acknowledge,i dunno,just giving you as much info as possible). I mean,we feel something definetly happened,like,we have some sort of strange connection,but we just dont know what to make of it,we really dont. I know it's crazy but really...ionno,id just like to know whats going on,haha.